“No, that will not work. I leave for holiday on the 8th of
June and will not return till around the 15th
of July.”
That was the response from a Chief Learning Officer who we
have been trying to get together for a meeting. However, it hit me as he told
me this that yes, this was vacation season. But more importantly, he would be
taking close to five (5) weeks off.
The summer holiday season is upon us and this is a common
refrain from expats throughout this region (I work in Dubai, in the Middle East). This
is a common practice here, and the only people who it gives pause to are people
like me.
Vacation is no big
deal
I remember a
recent survey from Glassdoor that detailed how many Americans never
take all of their allotted vacation time for. The reasons were always the same
and built around the constraints of work. But, taking vacation time is such an
ingrained habit here in the Middle East that I think even if things were
falling apart that t would still be seen as a sacred right and that it is meant
to be taken no matter what.
The
amount of paid vacation varies by country, but what I found amazing is that
there is no guarantee in the United States for paid vacation. That is one area
that we could learn a lot from.
Work-life balance
There is this constant chatter about work-life balance and
the issues that derive from it. My thought has always been that each person has
to find their own solution to that dilemma.
No organization could ever create a blanket policy that
would work perfectly for everyone. What each organization has to do is to try
to facilitate that process.
Have each department and their managers try to work it out
with employees within a certain framework. I, for one, do like to work from
home. But, I also need human interaction.
I had a job at one time where I worked from home five days a
week and ended up hating it. The loneliness and conference calls all day was a
bit much and I eventually left. So, that work environment did not do it from
me.
Every county has its
own work culture
Work habits in different cultures are paramount to your
ability to blend into your new culture. When you use the phrase internally, “we
have always done it this way,” it is the same as saying that “back in my
country we did it this way.” That is like saying that my country standard is
the holy grail.
I have known so many people who have hungered for an expat
opportunity, but within a year they wash out and long for their own standard.
There are a lot of one and done people out there since we all have yearly
contracts. As the saying goes, “once the glamour wears off, work happens.”
Having come to accept (and in a lot of cases, prefer) some
of these work habits has made me rethink “my standard.” My new network consists
of people from all over the world. Our dinner parties are an education in
culinary treats.
Our conversations revolve around the cities that we have all
traveled and lived in and the quirks of living there. It is a rich and
rewarding life experience that I would wish on everyone and anyone.
The rewards of
another culture
If you have kids, it is also rewarding because you are truly
raising global citizens of the world. Their schooling, which depending upon
your level of employment, is covered or at least subsidized.
These international schools are virtually a United Nations
of education. The weekend trips and vacation trips are unimaginable.
A friend of mine recently called to tell me she and her
family is leaving Dubai. She is an executive for a major hotel chain and her
husband, who is also a hotel executive, just got a major assignment. They will
be moving to Vietnam as he opens a new hotel for his employer.
The excitement in her voice told the entire story. They are
UK citizens who have lived all over the world, and now the next adventure
awaits them.
Rethinking the world
of work
As we enter into the scary new world of work, there are lots
of things that will need to be reconsidered, and not only about the
organization. Basically, we will need to rethink everything.
The Western work culture was built on the foundation of the Industrial Age, and that
alone is scary to even think about. The new age demographic of the workforce
will speed up the change process because this is the new workforce and we have
no choice but to adapt.
Whether we are rethinking holidays and vacations or the
structure of the workplace, everything should be on the table because it will
all have to be rethought moving ahead.
So, here’s my advice to my Western peers: take your vacation
and enjoy yourself because in the end, if something were to happen to you, the
job will move on with someone else in your driver’s seat.
Happy vacation season!
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